2009-11-25
07:04
November 25, 2009
2009-11-25
06:17
(via hotfacials)
The facial is a bit controversial isn’t it? Some people (me) love it. Others think it’s gross. Others think it’s demeaning. Some say it’s just unrealistic and no “normal” woman would ever let a man do that in the bedroom. Well, that last one’s not true. I have been allowed to do this on a couple of occasions. Not all the time but I’ve been given the go ahead. So, yes, “normal” women will sometimes go for it entirely outside of a pornography context.
Well, I guess it’s not entirely out of a pornography context. I certainly got the idea from porn. I don’t know that porn’s influence on my sex life has been positive or negative but it definitely can’t be denied that there is an influence. I don’t remember the first time I saw a facial in porn but I think I probably liked it. Still, in those days I reacted against it, because I thought that’s what I should do. Yes, I was looking at porn but that stuff was just demeaning and I was above that. Over time I started letting myself admit to myself I liked this sort of thing. I liked the sticky mess.
I think that’s what I like specifically: the mess. I like dirty, nasty, messy sex. In porn and in life. The nastiness and the dirtiness are exciting to me. I think it’s because of our cultural approach to sex. Even the most “sex positive” of us have received the not so subtle message from our culture that sex is dirty and shameful and have incorporated that into our world view in some fashion. Some people then turn against sex. Others are okay with it as long as it doesn’t get to dirty or nasty. Some seem to feel like if it’s dirty and shameful then let’s just go full speed ahead and be as dirty and shameful as we can be. I think I’m somewhere in between the last two. I like the facials because they are messy and nasty and it’s dirty and gross and maybe we should be ashamed of what we’re doing.
I will even admit that the possibility that it is a demeaning act or the opinion that it is a demeaning act may be part of the draw for me when I pump my cock over her face until I shoot my load of come all over her face and watch it drip and slide down her features. Our culture insists that sex is shameful so perhaps I want to demean and shame and then feel ashamed of doing it afterwards.
This is starting to feel a bit like therapy. So, let us turn away from such therapeutic examination of sexual behavior and to something a bit more relevant for this blog:
Woo! Look at this hot blonde who just took a big load of come on her face! It’s in her hair! HOT!
2009-11-25
04:45